Rethinking Manhood - The Toxicity Unveiled

In  the glossy world of advertising, social media glam, and high-profile showcases, the spotlight seems fixed on the allure of the 5'11" to 6'2" stature and razor-sharp jawlines. However, navigating the pages of reality, one can't help but notice the stark contrast

.The unrealistic body standards of Instagram question the average man and his physique. 

But, the perfect body doesn’t exist.

In the ever-evolving landscape of societal standards, this simple yet profound statement has woven its way into the fabric of acceptance. The perfect body doesn’t exist. Thanks to the surge in body positivity across the globe, we're witnessing the celebration of stretch marks, the rise of buzz-cut models, and the embrace of "beauty inclusivity" in the realms of fashion and media. These campaigns are strategically designed to dismantle rigid societal norms surrounding beauty, ushering in the transformative change we've all yearned for.

As you scan across your Instagram feed most body positive virtues are focused around females. 

But what about men? 

Discussion on body positivity for men appears to be next to invisible. 

Lingering stereotypes perpetuate the notion that beauty and fashion are arenas primarily navigated by women, conveniently overlooking the palpable reality that men are just as attuned to the sensitivities surrounding their appearance.

Lingering stereotypes perpetuate the notion that beauty and fashion are arenas primarily navigated by women, conveniently overlooking the palpable reality that men are just as attuned to the sensitivities surrounding their appearance. The unspoken truth is that the stress of cellulite is an equal concern. As we explore out 'all-inclusive' society, the oversight begs the question: How truly inclusive are we?

In the captivating realm of social media, where icons like David Beckham effortlessly flex their influence (a spectacle I certainly don't condemn), and gym enthusiasts with sculpted six-packs power through their workouts, the prevailing image of stereotypical masculinity takes center stage. Yet, the truth is, masculinity is nuanced and extends beyond the confines of this idealised portrayal of the alpha male. The real breadwinners aren't solely defined by a chiseled face, a perfect beard, or a flawless physique. Despite these truths, prevailing trends often fall short, perpetuating a psychologically toxic narrative that fails to accurately represent the multifaceted reality of everyday life.

A recent interview from singer Sam Smith by actress Jameela Jamil unravelled how toxic overthinking about your weight can impact your mindset and develop body dysmorphia. Jameela’s I-Weigh account has greatly impacted many followers around the globe to move towards feeling positive about their own body and avoid self-hate induced by mainstream media. Sam Smith explained how following such an account and many others assisted in his journey to have a healthier relationship with his own body and self image. 

In the realm of figuring out how many people, especially men, are dealing with these issues, there's a surprising lack of data. The absence of these numbers speaks volumes, prompting us to ponder the uncharted territory of silent struggles and unspoken battles in the journey toward self-acceptance.

Fashion is steering away from toxic masculine stereotypes, embracing a more inclusive approach—a positive shift that many are welcoming.